🕵🏻‍♀️ The Moment You Try to Prove It… You Already Don’t Believe It

Ever catch yourself thinking,

“I need to prove I’m good enough”? 🫣

“I need to prove I can do this”? 😤

“I need to prove I’ve moved on”? 😌

Let’s pause for a sec 🛑

Because here’s the sneaky truth:

If you have it, you rarely try to prove it.

And if you’re trying to prove it…

You’re still not sure you actually do 🤷🏻‍♀️

😬 “Proving” Is Just Performance in Disguise

When someone says,

“I’ll prove to you I’m confident!” 😤

you already know —

Confidence doesn’t announce itself like a bad talent show audition.

It walks in.

Sips coffee ☕️

Answers calmly.

And leaves before the drama starts 🕶

Same goes for:

• Proving you’re over someone? You’re not 💔

• Proving you’re capable? Still doubting 🤔

• Proving you’re chill? 100% not chill 😅

Sorry. Someone had to say it 😌✌🏻

🧠 So, What’s the Move?

When you feel that urge to prove, try this instead:

🔍 Ask:

• What part of me doesn’t believe this yet?

• Can I own it, instead of performing it?

• What would this look like if I trusted myself already?

Because real confidence doesn’t need a mic drop 🎤

It doesn’t need a highlight reel.

It’s in the tiny things — your posture, your pause, your no thanks with no explanation 💅

🧩 A Tiny Shift You Can Try Today

The next time you think “I’ll show them!”

Don’t.

Show yourself —

through alignment, through action, through ease.

The proof?

It’s in your presence 🧘🏻‍♀️