🪟 You Don’t Always Have to Climb Through the Window

Some of us got good at survival.

If the door wasn’t obvious, we found a window.

If no one offered a path, we built one — even if it meant climbing awkwardly in socks 🧗🏻‍♀️🪟

Strong. Resourceful. Independent.

But also… kinda tired? 😅

At some point, it’s fair to ask:

“Is this still necessary?”

The second time you visited that house, a chair had been placed by the window — a tiny gesture of help.

And then, someone casually pointed to… a walkway.

A real walkway.

Flat, walkable, effortless 😮‍💨

You’d missed it the whole time.

Not because you weren’t smart —

But because you were so used to climbing, you didn’t look for ease.

Not all growth requires climbing 🧗‍♂️

Some of it is about learning to walk through the open gate

without guilt 🚶🏻‍♀️✨

🧠 A Little Check-In:

  • Where are you still assuming the hard way is the only way? 🛠

  • What kind of support is quietly showing up — and are you allowing yourself to accept it? 🪑

  • What part of you thinks pain equals progress? And how can you tell it: “We’re safe now”? 💌

🌿 You don’t lose strength by choosing ease.

You’re just updating your inner operating system 💻

Struggle was the old default.

Ease is the new upgrade.

And yes, it still counts 💯

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